Just A Little Pick-Me-Up

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For those girls that think they can’t move on

Maybe this is a message, to reach out to a dear friend that won’t listen. Maybe this is a message to any girl out there that suffers with those ever-troubling boy problems. Maybe this is a message to help you get out of that rut that you probably think is the end of the world, is probably the worst pain anyone has ever endured. But here’s a reality check to all you girls that think like that: there’s been worse, people have gone through worse, and they’ve all made it out fine. Maybe the real problem we are facing is that you don’t understand your own self-worth. Maybe you wear yourself so thin for someone that’s not even worth it, and for what? Because you believe you won’t find someone like them ever again? Maybe so, maybe you won’t find someone exactly like them — but what if you find someone different? What if you find someone better? Someone that doesn’t make you go through loads of pain for just those fleeting moments of happiness. Someone that truly appreciates and loves you for who you are, each and every moment of each and every day. Someone that says they love you, and really means it with all their heart, where they would be so very cautious as to never even think about doing a single thing to hurt you. Why settle for someone — someone who doesn’t treat you with the respect you deserve — when you’re so young, so naive, just because you think you will never find anyone else? Looking at it with a clear mind and completely rationally, you’ll see that it makes no sense at all. You ruin yourself, you spiral down a path that only leads to depression and constant streams of tears for someone that only continues to make you feel this way. Does nothing to make up for it. Doesn’t even think to correct his mistakes. Why? Because “you love him.” Well guess what, give it 6 months. Give it a year, or maybe even two. I can guarantee you, you will find someone that you will love, you will fall in love with, and forget everyone that has hurt you in the past. There is always someone that comes along, always someone that will patch up all your heart’s wounds, will come and save you like the knight in shining armor that we all wish for at some point. You just have to give it time. You just have to know your worth. It takes a while, after being destroyed, to piece yourself back together and move on. It takes a great deal of strength, because it hurts like nothing has ever hurt before. Your ego, your self-confidence, your self-esteem, your self-worth — shattered, and there is only you to build it back up. But once you do, once you go through this obstacle, the worst part is over. Your confidence shines, radiates from you as you realize what a wonderful person you’ve been this whole time, how you don’t deserve any of what you’ve been through, and you begin the next chapter of your life with a clean slate and a mended heart. And the only question in your mind will be, “Why did I ever put up with his shit for so damn long?”